Divorce and Remarriage

“So Bob it’s been awhile, how are you doing?” “Fine other than the fact I am getting a divorce.” “Man I’m sorry to hear that!” “No worry Dan, after things settle down I will marry the woman I met a couple of years ago, everything will be better then.”
According to (Divorce Magazine .com) 49% of marriage ends in divorce. The moral effect of divorce is a silent destruction of today’s society. It has a ripple effect within the family unit especially when children are involved. Children of divorce, grow up having a lot of issues dealing with a variety of problems. Like drugs, alcohol, and low self esteem and having a feeling’s of guilt because of the divorce.
It does not matter where you stand on the issue of divorce, God hate’s divorce (Malachi  2:16) say’s “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and I hate man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,” say’s The Lord Almighty. God intended for marriage to be a life time commitment, not an institution of disposal, ideas. Meaning if you or some one in marriage does not fit then a divorce is had. However God knowing or sinful nature gave some laws on divorce.
(Deuteronomy 34:1) When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness’ in her then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand and send her out of his house. We can read in the scripture God hates divorce, because of our nature God gave laws to protect the women in the earlier days of history.

                                                                                         
Then we have the issue of remarriage, this is a debated around what Jesus said recorded in (Matthew 5:31-32) “It has been said, ‘anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for martial unfaithfulness, causes to her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.” 

The ‘martial unfaithfulness’ has been interpreted, to mean any form of sexual immorality. Thus Jesus saying possibly that divorce is permissible if sexual immorality is committed.
Therefore any braking of the marriage vows, by having sexual relations outside of marriage might be a permissible reason for divorce. Remarriage in some cases may be an option, though God would rather us change our hearts with reconciliation and forgiveness.
As the divorce and remarriage issue plays out in the debate arena, of today’s world, God’s word will stand for what He intended it to mean.
 
 
When does  one make a decision  to forward there independence to that of dependence? Does it happen when one realizes, that life of itself is more than what has been created by ones own hand?

 Or does it happen when the loneliness of self sets in? We are mighty in thought weak in spirit. The inner feeling that there has to be more to life, than to live or die burns inside each one us. There is more to life then what is understood in the vast knowledge of ones mind. We strive to make it through teen years seeking independence, to be our own person.

We make our mark big or small in the name of self freedom to do. Some reach the pinnacle of there desires. While others struggle to survive.  A game of choices and decisions made to what avail? 

 Good and evil are reality that confronts all and yet we do not see. Busy is the norm following this or that keeping up with the fads of the day missing what is real. Lost we are truly lost, unless we find the light.

The Light of Life is found when one searches for a true meaning. Without the hype or myth, that we are what is and no more. We are heirs to a life beyond this one, to find it is a realization that we are part of creation. Understanding this opens a door to a spiritual awaking, which is a choice to enter or not.

Making a choice to walk through that spiritual door brings the knowledge of our nature. Which brings forth the opportunity for salvation which is for all mankind These were words in a mind some may call it foolish I think somewhat interesting where do you stand?